So I just waved to Adam as I walked to my dorm. And I started thinking about how the hell I know Adam and Manu. I think this is somewhat indicative of my school.
I had at least one class with Manu freshman year. I can't for the life of me remember which one - maybe an English one. At any rate, I didn't start hanging out with her til I was dating Bill sophomore year. Manu was dating Adam, and Bill and Adam worked at the library together. As I remembered this, a whole bunch of memories flashed at me: huddling in the cold as the guys tried unsuccessfully to steal signs, going to Adam's "roomwarming" party.
BUT, when all that happened I was already separately friends with Adam, because we'd had a few philosophy classes together, back when I was going to be a philosophy minor, and we'd study together, sometimes with Dolce or Anico thrown in.
Then Adam went off to Asia for awhile, and I lost track of Manu. But this year, Adam is back and Manu is my RA, and we all get to hang out all over again.
This is what it's like with a good portion of the campus. The strands of connection weave together and around and quickly become a big jangled mess. At times, it really does feel like everyone on campus knows each other. I still remember Alee being shocked at how I knew what was up with Bill in England when she hadn't told me - never mind that he was part of a fairly large group and I could have found out from any number of people.
Perhaps this is what it's like living in a small town. Everyone knows everyone, and eventually you don't remember how anymore, and if you do it takes three hours to tell.
Hmmm, like a soap opera. No wonder this place is so full of drama.